something to share.....

well... last few days, i read a reporter blog and it was awesome meaningful for me and i think for u all too.. The reporter say about life is meaningful. Why in recent years many of the people wiling to control their own life by commit suicide and bring their life to the end? it was an unbelievable steps and it only bring short term pain or maybe an hour pain but don't you know that it bring long term nightmare or sad to your family. Some of them were commit suicide because they are caring sickness that lost hope, some other are owing money or lost in gambling, some are lost money in business or bankruptcy or other factors.

Then, you didn't bring anything to die and this would let your family caring lots of debts or even hit by someone because of you owing huge or big bulk of money to pay. Do you know that, there is nothing we can't settle in our life? Seem you can take a big step to commit suicide and why don't you take a big step to the positive way such as searching for the solutions to settle down the problems that you are facing. For debt carer, you can pay it in small amounts and make long term to pay and don't take any further loans or debts before you settle down the debt that you are currently caring. If unluckily you are borrowing from gangster, you actually can asked them for giving more period of time to settle the payment by using kind ways, don't forget they are also human and they have a kind heart too... For those who lost money in business or bankruptcy, you all can start again for the new business and learn from mistake to make sure it won't happen again.

This seem quite easily to say it out and it really doesn't hard to apply it if you take action in the first step by not just saying it to the air. This doesn't really bring benefits to you and your family by caring lots of pressure on their shoulder and it also can bring our world economy up. It is because everyone in the world are the contributor to the world economy. Children are the leader for tomorrow too.


think wisely...

fun night.....

i had just attended my close hong kong friend's birthday party. well.... we went to mercure hotel to have seafood buffet. It was really really nice and through that night buffet, i got the opportunity to know more new friends. this seems like i am going to step out from my lonely planet soon.. hoorray..... after dinner, some of use went to karoake to sing. I just able sang two songs and it was my first time went to karoake. it was really funssss and gotta have another trip there again if there is the opportunity. Planned to go clubbing with those friends again after exam, it is because they are quite active in socialize and won't feel bored. yeah.... i am gotta use to this type of life.... haha.... thanks Dennis for that brithday invitation....

Friendship forever....

boring but fun to have a week off.....

well.... I have just finished by semester uni break. Actually it wasn't as good as i planned holiday. It is because my friends they all messed up the plan and i can't stick on my plan due to the last minutes inform by them. My real plans were going to sydney, club, pub, some enviroment life and etc. But i went to whale watching, walking along the riverside and having dinner with Dennis in the casino cafe21. On Saturday and Sunday, I was attending gemstone course which is really fun and receiving cert. that has been qualified internationally. Learned how to differentiate synthetic diamond and natural diamond, 4'C, history of the diamond. After end of the day course, back to city and have a dinner alone before going back home. Sometimes i really hate bored, but what to do? accept it.

take care....

keep yourself alone sometimes is kinda good thing...

I have be alone in the lonely planet for around one to two months times. I mean I will be alone in sometimes and be with my friends for sometimes as well. Within this two months, the time i kept alone more than joining others. For the first month, I was too tired and think wanted to move forward to join another group of friends but after the deep thinking, I decided not to join any groups currently and just go out with any friends when they asked or i asked them.

From that time, I take sometime alone is kinda goods because that time is the really good time to think and what rights and what wrongs by not disturbing by other people or influence by others. In the short short two months, I think I have to think more mature and independent in doing decisions. So, I decided to explore around Australia with my friends that not in the groups and try to explore the lifestyle here such as clubbing. I don't think clubbing is kinda a bad thing for me. It is because we can think what can do and what can't do, so will not easily addictted to the bad culture. I planned to explore there because wanted to know more friends from different field and different backgrouds. lols.... It is not a crazy step but it is funs.....

See the real world, face it and learn from it...

This can let you step, one step faster than others and even two steps or three.....

FLYING FREEDOM AS EAGLE....

wondering....

Nowadays, life getting more and more challenging..... sometimes, when think of it then make me really tired but if not thinking of it then there is not solutions to solve it. But, this type of challenging make my life more and more interesing and kinda funs... Yeah... I just realize some of the friends around me just going to test each other is it the person good to take advantage of each others. It is human born to be in this type because we are helping each other and using each other when needed. There are some people who always trying to take advantage on you when you are weaker than them. Don't u think it is really funs.

Some of the friends try to protect you from being orlearning to be bad by using lots of lots restriction by not leting u joining.. This friend kinda good to join and will be there with you when you needed and will automaticly come and find you when they needed help. I prefer this type of friend because telling or asking help by trusting each other by not guessing what they are trying to say.....

haha....

this is my school holiday picture for a week... I went to australia zoo and whale watching and some other secret place....lolss....

amazing thinking......

This afternoon, when i had a good communication with my god brother. Throughout the chatting, i found out one of my friend who wife had pregnant for three weeks now. But, I just wondering, all the friend around him know that and i seem quite close to him and didn't even know that. I and him just has a nice cha during the mooncake festival for a few minutes but he didn't talk to me about this. I found really weird things here, did he always use french talk and still can have this problem. Lols.... maybe because the french talk that he use on that day not really well secure.

Actually, sometimes I really feel angry when my friends especially my best friend didn't tell me the truth and didn't inform me somethings yet asked other people to tell me or another of my close friend say so. But, from this time ownwards, I will not easily get anger because of somethings that somebody didn't tell me. Why? It's because if those things aren't important and telling u and also didn't bring good to you. Here, I will be angry when the really important and they didn't tell me especially my business things. You all also can share some of you things with me as well and i will be your listen ear to hear that.

well, I just had my dinner with my indonesian and malaysian friends in the vietnamese restaurant...

interesting financial management exam...

This morning, i had my financial mangament exam. When I just started to do the first question then the lecturer told us stop because the exam paper that i took which has been written down all the answers. Then we take a break for half an hour before continue for another set of exam paper. Some of them manage to memories the answer but i didn't do it. Why? It is because trust by myself i can do the best and get the real score from my effort and by not cheating....

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Yesterday, when i was chatting with my friend. Then I just found out from her conversation that we can not tell other people about our weaknesses and we have to be strong to others. Why? erm.... she say that, once you say ur weaknesses out, then the person or other people who knows that will also use ur weakness to challenge you and disturbing you. well, it doesn't mean bads... For short time, i think the person will be angry and can't stand for the matter and will come out an idea to escape or fight. Yet, for long term, it can bring good to the person. The person can try his/her best to change all the weaknesseses that he/she has to become strongness. This will let other people scared and respect on you...

hahas.....

now heading down to korean and japanese restaurant to have barbecue buffets...

Mooncake night...

Happy Mooncake Festival to all of my friends and people that know me....

Just came back from having dinner with friends that from other nation countries.

I think it is really nice and cool to have such opportunity to meet friends around the world because we can learn their culture and can expand the business to their countries that we can't estimate it too....

Here are some pictures that we took but we didn't took the meals and mooncake.

Well we ate whole deep fried fish, hot pan tofu, Hainan Chicken, Bak Kut Teh and Duck in Palm sauce.

Well, it is awesome nice especially the chicken rice that we can add for unlimited times....

From the left, Cecelia (Hong Kong), Jasmine (sister), Me, Jeep (Korea), Kee Meng (Malaysia)

Here is the flight performance...

take care....

learned lots.....

I have to thanks god for giving this great opportunity to be in this world. I have learned lots and lots from time to time even from second to second. I have to thanks all the people beside me no matter good or bad people because they bring me step into the real world to learn more and to be mature in thinking faster than those who same as age me. As you all know that, early July or August, I had finally decided to leave a group and didn't feel sad for me and I wanted to thanks them instead of scold them or angry with them. How come? I have learned lots from them such as, how to evaluate that the person is your true friend or take advantage of you of others. I also learned not to believe other people action easily and have to be brilliant mind in thinking what good or bad. oh yeah... currently I have make new friend who is from my hometown. He is a really good in doing marketing and he introduced me to attend an online marketing, advertising and etc course that costed USD50. But, I haven't make myself to attend this course because busying in univesity works such as homeworks, presentations, exams and others. When i checked out him through communication, we two almost have the same or identical thinking in business. That is learn when doing business and be calm when facing problems and we also always exchange our business problem that faced from time to time. Some of the problems seem really funny and not logic but it appear in the world. So, we have to learn in and make sure ourself not doing what they did wrong or known as learn from other people mistake.

There are few things always loitering or appear in my mind. Sometimes, when i promised someone in doing things for them I definitely will do for them. Why other people promised me and not do for me? such as someone had promised me for two months ago in doing a task for me. But until now, there is no sound of the things anymore and the person never take action at all. This problem has linked me to my future business path as well. It is because we talk to each other and say that we will become business partner when I graduate from university. Then, seem he didn't do such as easy task for me, can i believe his future big task? Can we become the successful partnet? This problem sometimes will be really complicated. It must view on different ways. Some people will say, just make friend with him and forget the future promise about the business path because the promise never been make and will make you hard to success or relay your planning. Others will also view in this position, try to organise, tell what the task suppose to operate, control and lead from time to time to make sure the person do the task and finish on time. Don't you think this as looking after a child or a baby?

Here is another question for you to think.
When someone lying on you for first time, will you still believe the person again? For me, yes. It is because everyone will do something wrong in their life time and must give them time to change it. But, how if the person lying you more than you expected or most of the times? This is hard to make decision right? For me, I will still take them as friend but I won't take their words seriously until they do it or apply it. I personally faced this problem that one of my friend always lying on me and don't know the reason why he lie. Maybe he thinks I am still young and good to cheat or he thinks I am the person who always believe his words. Here, I have to say sorry to him. I have tested him by using lots of different ways and everytime the answer were not the same. So, I never trust your words since that time and will trust until to do it. I can tell you that, I can differentiate who are talking true words and who didn't. I didn't take action on those people who lie on me because I wanted to keep friendship and wanted to learn lots of thinking from them. Every people have different good and bad too. I deny I am not perfect too. As I always told my parents that, we don't care how other people treat us or look at us, we only have to do the job that we suppose to do. They sure will do wrong in one days and let other people taught and punish them, we won't take action because we are educated.

Here another one too. If you have opportunity to choose now. You wanted to save the money to buy house or you take the money that you have now to get a loan for a car? It is really hard to make decision right? For me, I think I will get the money to buy land instead I still can live with my parents and can use the car that provided at home or take taxi. Land can grow money if you buy the land at the right time and at the right place. There is a person I knew since long time ago, he kept investing on land because he say this is the low risk investment and big return when the time come. I really believe this things because it is safer than investing in stock market. Why? we can't know the price for share tomorrow unless you are really good in this path but we can analyse the land price for the future by viewing the country development.

enjoy reading...........

Believe on yourself

There is a person who is currently having relationship with his girlfriend more than two year. Now, there is a tough life coming here. The guy planned to buy a new second hand car after he sold his previous car. But the problem is he planned to buy house before he planned to buy car. Is this idea changed from time to time? What you all opinion in it? Is it a good idea?

For my personal opinion, he can still maintain his old car by brought the car to service shop instead of sold it to another person and try to planning for housing. As you know, the housing prices has getting more and more expensive because of the raw material, wages increase and other factors. The guy also searching for a second hand house too. Why he don't wanted to get the house instead of car?

His wage is not as high enough to get the loan from the bank too. He can keep the money as saving in bank from time to time then for a long time there is a gain from the saving. Mayb instead of second hand house then can move to brand new house because gain from interest rate as well. The person also didn't put lots of effort in his working. He just always depend on the wages by keeping the same sells. He actually can try his best to do as much selll as possible until achieve the target that he wanted to then request for commission or increase wages. Then, for a long time he can have high wages then can buy the house in the shorter period than the plannd time. But, he didn't manage to do it and always sitting outside the shop by looking for other competitor shop than full of customers. He don't believe on himself and always depend on the world free meals. For example: if u didn't study hard, can u expect high markhs? The answer is yes and mayb no. Yes because he is intelligence in study and can gain all the information that taught by teacher in the class. For no, he didn't put lots of effort in doing revision and always jealous for the high markh student by not doing any revision. So, the person has to put more or extra effort in it to chase the yes person. After putting more effort in it, then u can see the result and you sure can win the person in the time coming.
so, Believe and depend on yourself...

Cheer...

Friend life.

It is my second time to write on this blog. Sometimes, when i have my free time. I still think that, " friendship forever" still apply to the world. Since early this year, I don't really trust of this anymore since I overseas to study. Don't really get what the answers. As someone told me that, some people close to you because they really wanted to be friend forever, yet some people wanted to be your friend because of they wanted to get some benefits from you such as image, protection and etc.

Early July, I had make my final decision to leave the group that I joined for one and a half year. Why I can be so happy to leave the group that I couldn't do it before? As I know, when the person getting more mature or in other words as looking for the real world, their thinking getting boarder and can make the right decision. Some people in the group and my friends asked me for what the reason. Actually, I feel not belong to the group and can't feel the happiness when in the group added with some other reasons as well. So, I finally take this action that I had think for this for more than two months. Leaving the group doesn't mean not bad but I had learned lots and lots from the group such as independent, don't easily trust other promise or really take the promise as real when they really do it. When the things not belong to you, then leave it better than carry the sad things on your shoulder than no one will know seems no benefits for you.

As, my close friends know that, I am the one who take the promise really really serious and once I say I promise to do it then i will do it asap. I found lots and lots of smiling and laughing around me , more and more friends I met after leaving the group. Why? It is because since early this year, I had put most of my energy in having funs in the group but i couldn't find it. oh yeah.

Last night, I finish watched a awesome nice hong kong drama. Learned somethings here too. Share with u all. Such as: don't easily trust other because there are lots and lots people because of benefits then they always say nice and sweet words beside you. But, there are also someone who really really care of you. Then, you have to use your bright mind to think who is sincere desire care of you and who are the people wanted to take benefits from you. Do not let other people know about your financial, personal infromation too much. For sure, in the friendship cycle, everyone sure will use another people to get benefits such as happy and funs. Then, have to be intelligence in it. It is because we can't read the person mind and they can totally changed to another person and do any action on you when they really wanted to gain somethings from you. Oh yeah. We can not have no friends in our life.

Cheer!!
having friends sure will bring funs to each other but must be intelligence in doing it.

Learning Motivation

The time has passed for a year and half. I learned more and more if compare to the pervious year. I learned lots and lots if compare to last few years such as to be more independent and well motivated. I have to be more independent to do all the things i wanted. Last few days because i failed to summit my online quiz then caused i had to do second attempt. This time, i think i start to learn independent and well motivated. Finally i get the score as high as i aimed but three careless mistakes. But I still happy because I can manage to make my own quiz and get really high score. As i know, we have friend to help when you needed. The problem is that is the true friend who is really and willing to help when u needed. But there is also another type of friend which will beside you when u are happy but no around you when u are sad. Actually we have to accept the reality of the world, no matter how the world change. We have to be friends with everyone as we can but nevertheless we also have some friend that we never talk to. We can learn lots and lots from them that not covered it the textbooks or in school. As I know, self motivation is the best way to succeed. As for me, I have leave a group of people that i just stay with them for one years long. Why i leave the group? Do this make question to you? Haha... Most of you all asked so. okay. Now is the time to tell you. That is the decision that i made by myself. I learned one of the successful businessman say, when the thing not belong to you then leave it and step one more further to see the real world. There are lots and lots of the unhappy things happening and loitering around the group.

Cheer!!