Friend life.

It is my second time to write on this blog. Sometimes, when i have my free time. I still think that, " friendship forever" still apply to the world. Since early this year, I don't really trust of this anymore since I overseas to study. Don't really get what the answers. As someone told me that, some people close to you because they really wanted to be friend forever, yet some people wanted to be your friend because of they wanted to get some benefits from you such as image, protection and etc.

Early July, I had make my final decision to leave the group that I joined for one and a half year. Why I can be so happy to leave the group that I couldn't do it before? As I know, when the person getting more mature or in other words as looking for the real world, their thinking getting boarder and can make the right decision. Some people in the group and my friends asked me for what the reason. Actually, I feel not belong to the group and can't feel the happiness when in the group added with some other reasons as well. So, I finally take this action that I had think for this for more than two months. Leaving the group doesn't mean not bad but I had learned lots and lots from the group such as independent, don't easily trust other promise or really take the promise as real when they really do it. When the things not belong to you, then leave it better than carry the sad things on your shoulder than no one will know seems no benefits for you.

As, my close friends know that, I am the one who take the promise really really serious and once I say I promise to do it then i will do it asap. I found lots and lots of smiling and laughing around me , more and more friends I met after leaving the group. Why? It is because since early this year, I had put most of my energy in having funs in the group but i couldn't find it. oh yeah.

Last night, I finish watched a awesome nice hong kong drama. Learned somethings here too. Share with u all. Such as: don't easily trust other because there are lots and lots people because of benefits then they always say nice and sweet words beside you. But, there are also someone who really really care of you. Then, you have to use your bright mind to think who is sincere desire care of you and who are the people wanted to take benefits from you. Do not let other people know about your financial, personal infromation too much. For sure, in the friendship cycle, everyone sure will use another people to get benefits such as happy and funs. Then, have to be intelligence in it. It is because we can't read the person mind and they can totally changed to another person and do any action on you when they really wanted to gain somethings from you. Oh yeah. We can not have no friends in our life.

Cheer!!
having friends sure will bring funs to each other but must be intelligence in doing it.