Saturday, September 13, 2008

learned lots.....

I have to thanks god for giving this great opportunity to be in this world. I have learned lots and lots from time to time even from second to second. I have to thanks all the people beside me no matter good or bad people because they bring me step into the real world to learn more and to be mature in thinking faster than those who same as age me. As you all know that, early July or August, I had finally decided to leave a group and didn't feel sad for me and I wanted to thanks them instead of scold them or angry with them. How come? I have learned lots from them such as, how to evaluate that the person is your true friend or take advantage of you of others. I also learned not to believe other people action easily and have to be brilliant mind in thinking what good or bad. oh yeah... currently I have make new friend who is from my hometown. He is a really good in doing marketing and he introduced me to attend an online marketing, advertising and etc course that costed USD50. But, I haven't make myself to attend this course because busying in univesity works such as homeworks, presentations, exams and others. When i checked out him through communication, we two almost have the same or identical thinking in business. That is learn when doing business and be calm when facing problems and we also always exchange our business problem that faced from time to time. Some of the problems seem really funny and not logic but it appear in the world. So, we have to learn in and make sure ourself not doing what they did wrong or known as learn from other people mistake.

There are few things always loitering or appear in my mind. Sometimes, when i promised someone in doing things for them I definitely will do for them. Why other people promised me and not do for me? such as someone had promised me for two months ago in doing a task for me. But until now, there is no sound of the things anymore and the person never take action at all. This problem has linked me to my future business path as well. It is because we talk to each other and say that we will become business partner when I graduate from university. Then, seem he didn't do such as easy task for me, can i believe his future big task? Can we become the successful partnet? This problem sometimes will be really complicated. It must view on different ways. Some people will say, just make friend with him and forget the future promise about the business path because the promise never been make and will make you hard to success or relay your planning. Others will also view in this position, try to organise, tell what the task suppose to operate, control and lead from time to time to make sure the person do the task and finish on time. Don't you think this as looking after a child or a baby?

Here is another question for you to think.
When someone lying on you for first time, will you still believe the person again? For me, yes. It is because everyone will do something wrong in their life time and must give them time to change it. But, how if the person lying you more than you expected or most of the times? This is hard to make decision right? For me, I will still take them as friend but I won't take their words seriously until they do it or apply it. I personally faced this problem that one of my friend always lying on me and don't know the reason why he lie. Maybe he thinks I am still young and good to cheat or he thinks I am the person who always believe his words. Here, I have to say sorry to him. I have tested him by using lots of different ways and everytime the answer were not the same. So, I never trust your words since that time and will trust until to do it. I can tell you that, I can differentiate who are talking true words and who didn't. I didn't take action on those people who lie on me because I wanted to keep friendship and wanted to learn lots of thinking from them. Every people have different good and bad too. I deny I am not perfect too. As I always told my parents that, we don't care how other people treat us or look at us, we only have to do the job that we suppose to do. They sure will do wrong in one days and let other people taught and punish them, we won't take action because we are educated.

Here another one too. If you have opportunity to choose now. You wanted to save the money to buy house or you take the money that you have now to get a loan for a car? It is really hard to make decision right? For me, I think I will get the money to buy land instead I still can live with my parents and can use the car that provided at home or take taxi. Land can grow money if you buy the land at the right time and at the right place. There is a person I knew since long time ago, he kept investing on land because he say this is the low risk investment and big return when the time come. I really believe this things because it is safer than investing in stock market. Why? we can't know the price for share tomorrow unless you are really good in this path but we can analyse the land price for the future by viewing the country development.

enjoy reading...........

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